Sticking to your budget is one of the trickiest parts of planning a wedding — especially because there are so many hidden costs. To help, we have comprised a list of the items our couples have mentioned they didn’t “realize” they needed to account for in their budget and during the planning process.

Personalized wedding welcome bags can be sweet…but costly!

Postage- When choosing your invitations, be sure to weigh it carefully — if it’s more than one ounce, you’re going to need additional postage. Some invitations can set you back $1 or more in postage fees. Keep in mind that extra postage is also required for square invitations, regardless of weight.
Alterations & Undergarments and Accessories- Unless you’re lucky, your wedding gown is going to require some alterations, whether that means hemming the gown, taking it in (or letting it out), or structural changes (like adding straps). Some salons offer a flat fee, while others will charge you for every alteration. This can run you several hundred dollars, so don’t blow your entire fashion budget on the gown. Also, save room in your fashion budget for the extras: the veil, shoes, undergarments and/or shapewear, and jewelry, which can set you back $200 to $500 or more.
Welcome Bags- While these are certainly not required, they are a lovely touch if you’re hosting out-of-towners. You can include things like a handwritten welcome note from the bride and groom, fresh fruit or flowers, disposable cameras, aspirin or Tylenol (to help with the hanfover) bottled water and a schedule of events.
Presents for Parents - You already know that you’ll need gifts for your bridesmaids, groomsmen, flower girls, and ring bearers. But definitely do not forget your parents. Consider an engraved frame, dinner & a Broadway show or maybe a second honeymoon package. They have done so much be sure to show your appeciation.
Vendor Meals - Your photographer and videographer will be with you for 8+ hours on the wedding day; they’re going to need some food to keep making sure you look your best all night long. The DJ and Band may not be on site as long but they are still working hard and need to eat as well…and please be sure to feed your planner team! Our general rule is anyone that’s working your wedding for longer than 4 hours should be given a meal.

Keep these items in mind and you will be on a path of a budgeting boss!

And if all else fails, hire an amazing planner to keep you on track… Events by Missy can absolutely assist with budgeting!